If you have experienced past traumas, including deaths, losses, violence or other assaults, you may be experiencing memories and feelings from those events and have increased symptoms now. For very public traumas, even those who have not directly experienced the crisis may be affected.
Please recognize that experiencing any of these can be normal reactions and that, with time, there is a natural healing process that occurs. Over the next few days or weeks, you may experience periods of:
The death of a loved one - Traumatic events often include injury and death. You may have known someone who died during a tragic event or this event may remind you of other deaths or losses. Even the death of a pet can be traumatic. Symptoms of grief and loss are similar to the post-trauma symptoms listed above, and many of the coping strategies listed below can help with grief as well.
The effects of cumulative trauma - Psychologically, we connect traumas. If you experience a new trauma before you've had enough time to heal from previous trauma, you may experience the separate events as related. This can lead to intensified symptoms and prolonged recovery time. As a result of multiple traumatic incidents, you may experience a greater sense of disconnectedness from yourself, others, and your work. Seek out support from a friend or counselor to help restore your sense of order and control.
Fear for your own safety - Tragedies that occur on another college campus may create additional feelings of fear for your own safety on campus. This feeling is normal, yet it also gives us an opportunity to strengthen our community. There are some actions you can take to feel more in control of your safety and environment: pay attention to our own surroundings; talk with other students; seek counseling for yourself or group counseling for your living communities; speak up if you feel someone around you needs help - whether that means seeking counseling or calling the campus police
Post-trauma at the workplace - After a traumatic event, your colleagues and co-workers may also experience some of the reactions listed above. Worksite group meetings to discuss individual experiences and plans for the future can be very helpful. Remember that each person can experience trauma differently. By extending patience and understanding you can support yourself and others in readjusting to life after a crisis.
Traumatized children - Children who have experienced a trauma first or second-hand need special attention. Children's symptoms may include excessive fears, unwillingness to go to school, nightmares, and increases in regressive behaviors such as bedwetting and thumb-sucking. Give your child an opportunity to ask questions, and respond in age-appropriate ways. Remember that your child may hear others talk about the trauma, and that without clear information, s/he can gain a distorted view of the crisis. Reassure your child by increasing physical contact, keeping in touch, and making plans to do things together.
People can take steps to help themselves, family members and each other cope with stress reactions.
Experience your thoughts and feelings - You have the right to have thoughts and feelings even if you were not directly affected and remind yourself you are normal and having normal reactions.
Talk about your thoughts and feelings - Even when the trauma is something that is being talked about publicly, it is important to talk to others about how you are affected. Talk to someone who feels safe to you.
Take care of yourself - Take care of your body by watching what/how much you eat, your use of alcohol, drugs, caffeine, nicotine, sugar, and medicine, and by practicing safe sex. Be sure to do some regular exercise and be more attentive when driving.
Take time - Be good to yourself—spend time with people you care about and do things that make you feel better. Take breaks, schedule pleasant activities, and engage in positive distracting activities such as sports, hobbies, and reading.
Have empathy - Each person experiences trauma differently and you and others may have different needs at different times, try to be flexible. Remember that when under stress you may not react in a manner you would normally expect.
Moderate your news intake - If the trauma is widely publicized, be mindful of how the media reports affect you. While having information is helpful for some crisis, some people may want to limit how much they read, listen to or watch the news.
School and work - If you are having trouble concentrating in class or work talk to your professors or boss about how to handle your workload and still give yourself time to recover.
Take action - While you do not want to make big life changes in the immediate aftermath of a traumatic event, find ways to express your thoughts and feelings about the trauma. Suggestions include political action, community service and spiritual/religious practice to name a few.
Seek support - From campus and community resources. Consult a mental health professional if you need assistance or want to gauge your reactions.
When and how to seek help - Stress reactions usually diminish in severity over time. However, if your symptoms persist, cause you excessive discomfort, or increase over time you may want to seek professional assistance.
Student Mental Health Services at UHS can help. If you would like to talk to a counselor, call (510) 642-9494. Appointments can also be made on eTang. If you need to speak with a counselor urgently when UHS is closed, please call the 24/7 counseling line at (855) 817-5667.
Employee Assistance is available for confidential support. Telephone consultations and appointments for office visits at the Tang Center can be made by calling (510) 643-7754 or by emailing: employeeassistance@berkeley.edu.